So I'm checking out this site that's giving advice to men about women. It lists what we are thinking during a first date as well as gives videos to girls that they have interviewed on behalf of first date experiences. I found this advice to be very humorous and odd.
To make it brief here is the list:
10. Should I have sex with him?
9. Does he have body hair?
8. How much money does this guy make?
7. Want kind of drink is he going to order?
6. Is he going to pay?
5. What are we going to talk about?
4.Does he signal any red flags?
3.How big is he down below?
2.Should I flirt with him?
1.Why did he take me to this location for a date?
Now here is my opinion about each number
10. True, girls think about this, but usually not on the first date -- unless they are a huge slut or very sheltered and have been dreaming about going out with this guy for a while now. In either of these two cases, you'd better run, cuz you may get more than the fun time you bargained for.
9. I have never heard a girl say that she thinks about this, so -- correct me if I'm wrong -- but this one doesn't need to be on here. In fact, we usually don't ever think about this one topic when visiting or dreaming about a guy. I think the idea slips our mind until we see the guy naked and realize there's body hair that we do or do not like. Ha!
8. Yes, every girl thinks of this question. However its the extent of which one thinks about it is where it can become an issue. For example, when I think about this I'm only wondering if he's going to mooch off me. If a guy can't even pay for his own gas when he comes to pick me up, then he shouldn't be asking me out to begin with. Besides that, other girls may want to know for security reasons, code being - do I get pregnant and make you support me?...so watch out! Better to act like you make just above minimum wage to rule out these gold-digging females.
7. Ummm...I don't really drink, so caring what the other guy orders is never on my mind. I don't think a girl cares, unless she's a big drinker herself. Or she just wants to know how much she can drink around you without you thinking she's too big of a drinker. Bottom line -- order what you want. We really won't care.
6. Wow! This questions does come up every date. However I have to state that this is where we girls need to stop expecting men to pay for everything! It's not fair. First date through third date, a girl should pay for her half. You're both still trying to figure out if you like each other. Therefore I find it only fair for you pay your half of the meal, the event/entertainment, and possibly even drive yourself (it's easier to escape that way).
5. The moment this crosses a female's mind is the moment it's silent in the room and you're not making conversation. Therefore, talk about something other than sports. Ask her about herself and try to make her feel comfortable. I can't tell you how many times I have been out with guys and this problem has occurred. I try to be nice and act like the silence or lame topic interests me, but in the end I'll go home feeling glad that I'm away from him.
4. This one is huge! I am particularly drawn to looking for red flags and I think other females are the same way. What can I say? We just don't like to waste our time. In this case, there's nothing you can do about it males. You're either what we're looking for or you're not. You just got to find this out the hard way or just simply not be a creep. Some girls are good at speaking up and saying what they don't like while others will think they're being nice by not telling you and just never talking to you again. So good luck here!
3. If a girl is thinking about this by the first date, she is nasty! Run! Ha. No honestly, we don't think about it until the action happens and in that case - it's a whole other subject.
2. If a girl is wondering if she should flirt with you, she's only asking herself that, because she doesn't know yet if you would
a) if you would feel comfortable with her doing so
b) not sure if she likes you yet
c) not sure how to
d) any mix of the three at once
Either reasoning she will flirt if she REALLY likes you
1. Yes, we all wonder this questions. Bottom line is it better be a location that you didn't take some other girl to. We like to believe that you're taking us to a place that you are visiting for the first time too or have only been to with family.
if you want to view more on where I found this advice you can visit the site: http://ca.askmen.com/top_10/dating/first-dates.html
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