Friday, January 3, 2014

Questions not to ask

When you're with a female there are a few topics you should avoid talking to her about. Especially at the beginning of getting to know her. Some you should never ask or say ever for your own good. Below is this list:

How many people have you slept with?
Trust me, you're better off not knowing. Knowing a females number of men that she has slept with will only do you mental harm (if this numbers low or high) and never give you any true insight on who she is. Never ask this question and just remember that she's sleeping with you and not any of them!

What do you want to do tonight?
At the beginning of the relationship you should leap out ideas and not ask her. She will get sick of having to decide what you're both going to do. Every girl loves to be surprised and have a man show how creative and fun he can be. So you pick the event and wait until you've been on a few dates with her before you start asking her to contribute with the ideas.

Do you really think you should eat that?
You're going to have a girl feeling insecure if you ever ask this question. You want to make her feel comfortable and happy around you. If you ever ask this question you will have her questioning her weight and if you think she is obese. So let her eat what she wants and you wont have to witness a fight nor tears.

Why haven't you texted me back yet?
If you send a text message or facebook message to a girl and she hasn't wrote you back its because she's either busy or purposely not messaging you. However you should never ask this question, because you will come off as clingy, needy, or insecure. Just move on if she hasn't texted you back. Better to walk away without shame or regret.
Can I kiss you?
Don't ask this! This is a simple mistake that will kill the mood or ruin the surprise. Its a risky thing to lean in and see if it's okay to kiss her, but trust me it will make a better approach catching her by surprise. Plus a girl loves a man in control. So don't ask, just go for it!

Can I take you out on a date?
Similar to asking a girl for a kiss, don't ask. Just be confident and take control. Be confident by saying, "we should hang out" or "I'm going to take you to eat at an amazing restaurant which has amazing dessert." She will admire your confidence and admire your ability to leap at her.

Would you like to meet my friends and family?
If you're asking you may scare her. Never ask. If you want her to meet your family or friends than just make an event for place for her to meet them. However make sure she likes you enough and you've both been together long enough first. Otherwise this will still scare her.


What else can you think of?

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