Tuesday, January 14, 2014

How to tell if he loves you

There's many ways to show your love without saying the four letter word.
Below are examples of how you can tell if your man loves you and if you're on the right track to lasting in a happy relationship.

1. He looks to hold your hand
Holding hands seem like a simple gesture that people do all the time, but if you catch him searching to hold your hand in public he's saying that he loves to tell others that you are his. If he is doing it indoors as well than he is indicating to you his love by something as small as squeezing your hand tightly and gazing into your eyes when no ones around or seeking your hand to hold while sleeping next to you at night.


2. Long lasting kiss
When he's constantly kissing you and there's passion behind each kiss. Also when you break away after a kiss and he has a big grin on his face showing how amazed he is and how happy you make him.


3. His friends approve of you
If his friends keep asking for you to join them in hanging out than that says that they know how happy you make their buddy and approve of you being with him. Meaning he has spoke about you a lot to his friends and stating how much you mean to him.


4. He invites you over
If he loves having you around and constantly asking you to spend time with him than this is a good indicator that he enjoys your company and is happy always having you close. He enjoys being with you even if it's daily tasks that doesn't need his presence suck as going grocery shopping.


5. When he listens to you
Most guys know how to block out a woman when they don't appreciate her nor care what she has to say. But when a guy actually is asking you questions about yourself, your day, and he listens. Than this states that he actually loves you. You can also tell this by his ability to remember facts or details that you mentioned within your conversations.


6. Calls or texts you
Most people call or text to get a quick message across, but if your man is texting throughout his entire day than he's saying he is thinking of you. The fact that he keeps things of you makes this a dead giveaway that he is saying he loves you.


7. He sticks around
When you're sick, he still wants to be there to take care of you. If you have a crazy family, he doesn't care, and stays with you. You have a fight and he asks you to work things out and not break up. You're having an off day and just not in a good mood, he asks, "you wanna talk about it?" These are all signs that he is saying he loves you.


8. Eye contact
When you go out with friends and you split way to hang out across the room from each other. He would come around to check in with you throughout the night. Make eye contact with you from across the room just to get you to smile and see if you're okay. If he can read your thoughts or emotions by gazing into your eyes and having not spoken any words.

9. Mirroring you
You start to catch him taking on traits or characteristics that you have or do all the time. Such as phrases you say, jokes you tell, the way you bite your nails when nervous, etc. This is an indicator that you're rubbing off on him. You two spend so much time together that he doesn't even realize he's picking up these traits and mirroring you, when actually psychologically he's doing these things, because he admires them in you.

10. Meaningful Gifts
The gifts are not expensive, but only something you would appreciate and understood between the two of you. Such as you telling him that you wanted a photograph of you both together. The following week he supplies you with a gift, which turns out to be a picture frame saying, "this is for you to put in our first picture together."


Friday, January 3, 2014

Questions not to ask

When you're with a female there are a few topics you should avoid talking to her about. Especially at the beginning of getting to know her. Some you should never ask or say ever for your own good. Below is this list:

How many people have you slept with?
Trust me, you're better off not knowing. Knowing a females number of men that she has slept with will only do you mental harm (if this numbers low or high) and never give you any true insight on who she is. Never ask this question and just remember that she's sleeping with you and not any of them!

What do you want to do tonight?
At the beginning of the relationship you should leap out ideas and not ask her. She will get sick of having to decide what you're both going to do. Every girl loves to be surprised and have a man show how creative and fun he can be. So you pick the event and wait until you've been on a few dates with her before you start asking her to contribute with the ideas.

Do you really think you should eat that?
You're going to have a girl feeling insecure if you ever ask this question. You want to make her feel comfortable and happy around you. If you ever ask this question you will have her questioning her weight and if you think she is obese. So let her eat what she wants and you wont have to witness a fight nor tears.

Why haven't you texted me back yet?
If you send a text message or facebook message to a girl and she hasn't wrote you back its because she's either busy or purposely not messaging you. However you should never ask this question, because you will come off as clingy, needy, or insecure. Just move on if she hasn't texted you back. Better to walk away without shame or regret.
Can I kiss you?
Don't ask this! This is a simple mistake that will kill the mood or ruin the surprise. Its a risky thing to lean in and see if it's okay to kiss her, but trust me it will make a better approach catching her by surprise. Plus a girl loves a man in control. So don't ask, just go for it!

Can I take you out on a date?
Similar to asking a girl for a kiss, don't ask. Just be confident and take control. Be confident by saying, "we should hang out" or "I'm going to take you to eat at an amazing restaurant which has amazing dessert." She will admire your confidence and admire your ability to leap at her.

Would you like to meet my friends and family?
If you're asking you may scare her. Never ask. If you want her to meet your family or friends than just make an event for place for her to meet them. However make sure she likes you enough and you've both been together long enough first. Otherwise this will still scare her.


What else can you think of?

Sexy Male Professions

Here is the list of some of the sexiest professions due to uniform/attire. Every girl can agree on this, but what would you add to the list?

Fireman
Businessman 
Mechanic
Athlete
Musician
Handyman
Lifeguard