Let's Inspect Disney Prince The Beast

A while back ago I spoke about the Disney Prince Aladdin and how he's a great example as to how men act: greedy, selfish, and manipulative. Today I would like to bring forth yet another example by welcoming the Prince named Beast from the movie "Beauty and the Beast."

The beast is of course named honorably for his true colors. If it were up to me, many men would also get this virtuous award winning name. However his name alone does not represent him entirely for who he truly is. The beast in my opinion shows signs of anger management issues, insecurities, and being spoiled rotten.

Yes, the beast has anger management issues. There was numerous signs of this throughout the entire movie and any one with half a brain could tell. In fact I may even say he was abusive to Bell. There were moments were he acted like he was going to hit her and you could see her cringe to his body movement just waiting for the impact. Poor Bell! Let's not forget that he also held her prisoner, forced her to dine with him for dinner, yelled in her face, and cut her off from the rest of society. Meanwhile he was always angry shouting, and running off to his room. No one can quite fully know why he was angry, but I'm sure it was along the lines of his curse, or about the minor moments others were happy in his home, or/and about his so called "loneliness."

Which takes me onto how he shows signs of being spoiled Rotten. This man had all the money in the world, he had numerous people who worked for him, and a large castle to live in. In the beginning of the movie you see him receiving presents and he acts childish by being unappreciative. This is of course is why he got himself into the mess of being cursed. Yet he obviously never grows up. He still eats poorly at the dinner table having bell whip his face and having no manners. He has to have others bath him even though he's a full grown man. Lastly he never cleans up after himself. His cleaners turns into kitchen item and that still doesn't stop them from sweeping the floors.

Poor baby the Beast. No, I don't think so, in fact I don't feel bad for him at all! In my opinion he didn't receive a big enough punishment by being having his appearance look just as ugly as his insides. I mean even with this curse, he still had his waiters, butlers, and servants to pick up after him, he still had all his money, he got to stay and live in his massive castle, he got more muscular, and yet he self pitted himself just because he was no longer handsome. Yeah, I don't feel sorry for him at all.

Then there's his insecurities. He covered up all his old photos of himself so didn't have to look at them, he never likes catching his own reflection, and he apparently is too shy to want to step into the light so Bell could see his true appearance. Yes, this man has some serious insecurities and its no wonder he had to force a female to live with him in order to even get close to someone. Fact being, you can't love someone if you don't accept loving yourself first. Now with that said, I can't help but wonder how Bell's relationship is with him now? He has his handsome face back but does Bell have to tell him, "you look good in those jeans" in order for him to step out into public with her? And does his face make up for all those other bad personality faults? Did he really change by the spell being broken or is he still that insecure, angry, and spoiled beast?

Tell me, what do you think?

Women have the right

Thanks to living in America and straight from the Citizens Rights websites
we are capable of having the:

• Freedom to express yourself.
• Freedom to worship as you wish.
• Right to a prompt, fair trial by jury.
• Right to vote in elections for public officials.
• Right to run for elected office.
• Freedom to pursue “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.”

So with that said, I would like to point out that women have the right to do as they want with their lives and their bodies.

Therefore we have the right to choose who we want to be with, if we want to have a baby, if we want to have an abortion, if we rather adopt, or have a surrogate mother to carry our child. Personally I see it as our honorable right to choose as we please. No person nor man should ever tell us otherwise. 

Therefore if a girl tells you straight up front her beliefs, desires, and ambitions for herself. Then you as her partner should learn to appreciate that, be supportive, and caring towards her decision. If you can't find yourself being capable of doing this then you should move on and find someone else that shares the same interests as you. Don't drag the relationship on trying to get her to change her ways to satisfy your own.

However she is not at fault for doing something that you don't agree with. She is not bad for choosing her own path. Lastly she has not given you the right to judge her for her decision. It's her body, her choice, and her right! 

If Men are looking, take it as a compliment

When a guy checks out another guys girl, he typically reacts in one of the following ways:

a) All pissed off and shouting to the man, "Hey what you doing looking at my girl?" Which then leads to an overdramatic fist fight.

b) The male to fight with his girl by shouting, "Are you purposely dressing sexy to impress other men? This kind thing never happened to my last girlfriend, so why does it always happen with you? What are you doing behind my back?"

c) Insecure boyfriend that doesn't like the extra attention and taking his girlfriend out, saying, "I just don't like how everyone stares at you."

When in all cases the boyfriend shouldn't behave by any of these standards. Instead he should notice the men staring and take it as a compliment.

Finally a song came out which expresses just what I mean.
Enjoy!

Song Title: I don't want her
Artist: Eric Bellinger
Video Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eh-jd4fG1JE

Song of the week

The second I heard this song I felt like it was meant for my blog. This particular version of the song is even more amazing then the original, because of the violin (being my favorite instrument) being incorporated. In addition to that, I love how he poetically sings about his love: His description about loving someone for her imperfections, her curves (beauty), and how love makes him crazy by fully giving himself just as she does in return.  

Song Title: All of me

Artists: John Legend

Video Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xwsYvBYZcx4

Lyrics:

What would I do without your smart mouth?
Drawing me in, and you kicking me out
You've got my head spinning, no kidding, I can't pin you down
What's going on in that beautiful mind
I'm on your magical mystery ride
And I'm so dizzy, don't know what hit me, but I'll be alright

[Pre-Chorus:]
My head's under water
But I'm breathing fine
You're crazy and I'm out of my mind

[Chorus:]
'Cause all of me
Loves all of you
Love your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections
Give your all to me
I'll give my all to you
You're my end and my beginning
Even when I lose I'm winning
'Cause I give you all of me
And you give me all of you, oh

[Verse 2:]
How many times do I have to tell you
Even when you're crying you're beautiful too
The world is beating you down, I'm around through every mood
You're my downfall, you're my muse
My worst distraction, my rhythm and blues
I can't stop singing, it's ringing, in my head for you

[Pre-Chorus:]
My head's under water
But I'm breathing fine
You're crazy and I'm out of my mind

[Chorus:]
'Cause all of me
Loves all of you
Love your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections
Give your all to me
I'll give my all to you
You're my end and my beginning
Even when I lose I'm winning
'Cause I give you all of me
And you give me all of you, oh

[Bridge:]
Give me all of you
Cards on the table, we're both showing hearts
Risking it all, though it's hard

[Chorus:]
'Cause all of me
Loves all of you
Love your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections
Give your all to me
I'll give my all to you
You're my end and my beginning
Even when I lose I'm winning
'Cause I give you all of me
And you give me all of you

I give you all of me
And you give me all of you, oh

Cautions on Trip to Vegas

Now taking a typical trip is a great way to spice up the relationship, however you also need to consider the consequences that you're facing when taking a trip to LAS VEGAS. That's right, Vegas!

It's the number one place to go to when single, because you can hook up, get lucky, and make mistakes. "What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" as they say.

However here are a few tips that men should be warned about before taking a girlfriend on a trip to Vegas. If you don't abide by these 3 DON'TS then you may end up being single before you know it.

1. Don't focus on other girl! Yes the girls are walking around revealing and most are even easy when flaunting their "almost naked" bodies down the streets. However you need to consider diseases, how she may rob you, or ask for you to pay for her services. They aren't always free and I highly suggest you keeping an eye only on the women you showed up with if you plan on returning from your trip still with her. Wither you think you're smooth...trust me you're not, your girl will notice and she won't be as nice as to give you a warning (like I am trying to do for you right now).

2. Don't gamble all your money away! There's nothing more boring then being away on vacation broke. Gambling does come off as a fun at first, but don't allow yourself to get carried away with it, and spend all your play money that you were suppose to use on the trip. You're girls gonna wanna head home early if all she's financially capable to do is stay in your hotel room watching TV.

3. Don't be getting so drunk to where you do any of the following:
a) Telling your girlfriend she is less attractive then that stripper you saw earlier that night

b) Taking a picture when another girl to text to all your friends, because you think it makes you look cool. Be caution here, you're girl will eventually see this pic.

c) Act like a complete idiot and over drink to where your girlfriend has to babysit you, because she wont. Instead she rather be dancing and may consider sending you home early and dancing the night away with someone else for a good time.

So to sum it up, the 3 DON'T in Vegas are as simple as this:
1) Don't stare at other women
2) Don't gamble away all the money
3) Don't become a drunken idiot

Song Of the Week

This song is dedicated to everyone for Valentines Day. Play this song for your Valentines date and you're sure to be kissed. These words are what every girl wants to hear when a man says he loves her.

Plans for Valentines Day

Here's some suggestions of what to do for Valentines Day for your Hubby. Just remember money isn't everything when it comes to love. If thats all she wants then you need to look for a new girlfriend.

Reenact your first date

She will be dazzled to relive the first time you two met and sparks accrued. Not to mention be happy to know that you remembered the little things.

Go out ice skating

Sure your a guy and don't like these kind of things, but when you do them just because its something that would make her happy is the best gift you can give. Doing something fun and romantic such as this will defiantly get her falling back into your arms again.

Give her a massage

You can make it sexy and buy oils to give her a massage in the comfort of your home or be fancy and book a couples massage for your both to get done together at a spa. Nothing better than feeling pampered like this.

Make a path of Rose Petals

Girls love romance and we eat it up even if its corny. Leave a trail of rose petals from the front entry door to the kitchen where a teddy bear with a "I LOVE YOU" note awaits her. She will smile big and be unable to take the smile off due to the hard work, fun journey, and gasping surprise. 

Sensual hot tubing

Just as relaxing as a massage, but more sensual because of its ability to soak in the tub wearing a swim suit or nothing at all. You can do this at home in your bath tub, go to the nearest hot springs, or rent out a hot tub rooms at a local spa facility. Its a great way to get close, feel relaxed, and allow for some playful fun.

Couple Board Game

They have couple board games that are fairly inexpensive and allow you to spice up the fun. You can make valentines an excuse to stay in with this fun. You can role play, learn more about your partner, and enjoy a great laugh.

Cook her a Dinner 

You don't have to go out to eat in order for it to be a special occasion. Wine and dine her by showing her that you know how to cook and make her a delicious feast that is sure to wow her over with excitement to tell her girlfriends about.

Dress up

Whither going out or staying in. You should tell her to dress up in her finest clothes. Girls love being able to dress up and this will allow her to be more excited for the occasion. Than no matter what you should dance with her so she is sweeped off her feet. Nothing more special then being dressed up and dancing. 

What plans you going to do?