Flower Color Symbolism

Several men purchase flowers for women without knowing that certain colors actually represent specific meanings behind them. Here I will educate you men and women on what color of flowers give off what predominate emotion depending upon which flower you choose or receive.  

So next time you men will know just which color of flower to pick and you Women will know what your man may be saying behind his choice of boutique color arrangement. 

If you choose/receive RED flowers, it means:
Intense romantic love. Red is the unquestioned color of passion to help you express your strong and powerful love. Red flowers are the closest symbolic likeness to the heart. Red is the color of seduction and desire. 

If you choose/receive ORANGE flowers, it means:
To offer happiness and joy. To feel the warmth of love and express the message of adventure and spontaneity. 

If you choose/receive PINK flowers, it means:
A combination of innocence, playfulness, and sensitivity.They are not as intense as red flowers, but express a deeper spectrum of love’s possibilities. They have been traditionally associated with femininity, and with that association comes delicate and gentle connotations such as showing thoughtfulness and spontaneity.

If you choose/receive YELLOW flowers, it means:
Friendship, filial love, trust, compassion, respect, and can communicate sympathy. These gentle flowers show your warmth and compassion and renew ties of friendship, even during difficult times. 

If you choose/receive GREEN flowers, it means:
Harmony with nature and good fortune, such as telling someone to live a life of balance and enjoyment. 

If you choose/receive BLUE flowers, it means:
To offer serenity and a calming effect. This color cools emotion and creates a contemplative mood. They also speak of intimacy and are perfect flowers for long-term couples who want to communicate their deep and abiding trust. The peace derived from blue flowers also makes them an appropriate sympathy or get well flower.

If you choose/receive PURPLE flowers, it means:
Enchantment, mystery, charm, grace, creativity, and elegance. 

If you choose/receive WHITE flowers, it means:
Purity, honesty, and perfection. A great way to express elegance and innocence. 

If you choose/receive BLACK flowers, it means:
Mystical expectations, a journey into unexplored territory, and a beginning of new things. As well as symbolic for sadness, to mourn, and farewell.

Better yet, any man can purchase flowers from the store, but a true man searches and picks his flowers with true thoughtfulness and hard work. To me, picked flowers mean more than purchased flowers. 

Song of the Week

This is a true old song that disrespects heavy set women. However if you listen closely she is still loved by one man and in a morbid way this song still expresses how there is someone out there for everyone. I found this song to be funny and have to dominate it as song of the week. Enjoy!

Song Title: Too Fat Polka

Artist: Arthur Godfrey

Video Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5uOu-sDFfS8

Lyrics:

Here's a silly ditty, You can sing it right away Now, here is what you say So sing it while you may Here's a silly jingle, You can sing it night or noon Here's the words, that's all you need 'Cause I just sang the tune: Oh, I don't want her, you can have her She's too fat for me She's too fat for me She's too fat for me I don't want her, you can have her, She's too fat for me She's too fat She's too fat She's too fat for me I get dizzy I get numbo When I'm dancing With my Jum-Jum-Jumbo I don't want her, you can have her She's too fat for me She's too fat for me She's too fat for me I don't want her, you can have her She's too fat for me She's too fat She's too fat She's too fat for me Can she prance up a hill? No, no, no, no, no Can she dance a quadrille? No, no, no, no, no Does she fit in your coupe? By herself she's a group Could she possibly Sit upon your knee? No, no, no We don't want her, you can have her She's too fat for me And she's too fat for me But she's just right for me We don't want her, you can have her She's too fat for me Yeah, she's too fat, Much too fat But she's just right for me She's so charming And she's so winning But it's alarming When she goes in swimming We don't want her, you can have her She's too fat for me She's too fat for me But she's just right for me So I sure want her, you can't have her She's just right for me But she's too fat! She's not too fat! She's just right for me! She's a twosome, She's a foursome If she'd lose some I would like her more some I don't want her, you can have her She's too fat for me She's too fat for me She's too fat for me I don't want her you can have her She's too fat for me She's too fat Much too fat She's too fat for me Hey!

Sexy Male Body Parts

Someone recently asked me what my favorite parts of the male body where. Now this is a fun topic...

First there are the EYES

It doesn't matter what color they are, it only matters that they make you feel this way:
-Passion when you gaze into them
-A good soul that he embraces within
-The desire to daydream when you've been caught starring into them for too long

                                                          Second there are the LIPS

-He should be a good kisser

-Knows how to smile, smirk, and pout to get his way 

-Whispers your name and sweet words into your ear

-Has a little stubble or no facial hair at all

Third is his HANDS

-Should be strong

-Shouldn't feel soft like a woman, but rather rough because he works with his hands

-Should know how to be gentle with them when necessary

Fourth is the Back

His back doesn't need to be real muscular, but it does need to be capable of
-Needing a massaging from working so hard
-Have strength for your hands to feel
-Have broad shoulders
-And a masculine frame

Fifth is an ASS

I can't stand it when guys wear skinny jeans and has a flat ass. I prefer a guy to have an ass that:

-You can squeeze

-That isn't a bubble butt

-Is firm

-And looks spectacular in boxer briefs

Sixth is Arms

-They should make you feel safe when you're wrapped in them

-They should be strong enough to lift you up

-They should be a bit natural and not all gained from the gym

Seventh is Chest

-It should be firm

-Muscular

-Have little to no hair 

-Have a big rib cage

-Doesn't matter if he has abs or not

Eighth is legs

-Should have hair. I can't stand it when a guy shaves his legs

-Should have thicker legs than mine

-Should have some definition to them from being active

Ladies what would you add to this list as a preference?

Tis the season to be Lonely

It's sad to hear that most suicides happen around this time of the year and if you're alone it would seem reasonable as to why you choose that path. Lets take a stroll through holidays to come and see just why someone may be feeling the way that they are.

First there's Halloween 

Couples dressing up together and having fun finding matching outfits

Than there's Thanksgiving

Couples cooking together and enjoying a big feast with their familes

Next is Christmas 

Couples decorating the Christmas tree together and buying each other gifts

After that follows New Years

Couples celebrating their time together and a new years kiss

Now those are just a few examples and being single and sitting through all these holidays can defiantly make sense why someone would would want to jump into a relationship, be grumpy, or feel sad all holiday seasons. 

So throughout all holidays I hope everyone enjoys their loved ones, cherries the good, and doesn't judge those less fortunate. 

Dream Guy

I've heard that some people don't dream when they fall a sleep at night, but I always have the most vivid dreams ever! Usually when i dream of men, it's always this same sexy mystery guy with no face who comes to visit me. 

This "dream guy" has the best body, the sweetest touch, and the sexiest voice. I love it when I have dreams of him! 

In my dreams, it shows him taking me out on dates, shows him saying hi to all my girlfriends and them saying "you're the luckiest girl ever," and everything always just seems perfect between us. 

But those are dreams right? Too good to be true! ha

It's a shame I never know who this guy is. Darn you dreams for haunting me with this perfect guy! But than again, message him and let him know I'm free tonight for some more sweet dreams ha ha ha

But than - I have other dreams like last night that stick with me all day and I just keep replaying in my head. Why did I dream that!???

Last night a "dream guy" came into my dreams, however this time he had a face and I knew exactly who he was. 

My apologizes for waking you up this morning "dream guy with face" and telling you all about this silly dream while I was still half a sleep. 

I haven't seen him this guy in years and don't know why I dreamed of him...

But moral of this story is, love thy dreams with "dream guy," but don't call and let "dream guy with face" know that you've been dreaming about him. Ha 

Reasons why dating is scary

So all my girlfriends are in relationship and as a true friend I'm always here to listen to them talk about how their "relationship lives" are doing.

One may envy their stories, yet all I hear is stories of future warnings.

I've started to realize that their stories where all great reasons as to why dating is scary.

I rather not experience the following:

Him moving in and dirtying your personal space

Arguing over every little thing and easily getting annoyed of each other

Realizing just how lazy he is and how you can't get him to help out with any thing 

Having to share the bed when some nights you wanna just get a good night sleep

Him eating all the food when you just went grocery shopping

Having to check in, say where you're at, and ask for permission to stay out longer

Putting up with guy nights and his friends

What more would you say should be on this list?

Online Dating

So I've been trying online dating for the first time in my life. I just keep hearing that it's it's the new and exciting way of meeting new people, so I thought I would see how it worked out for me.

First online dating experience went a little like this:

I saw the guys photo online and instantly I was intrigued by his photos. He was a good looking guy! Brown hair, blue eyes, fit built, and stood 6 ft tall. In his page he spoke about having manners, how he had a good job at Intel, had his own place, and just recently moved here from California.

So I sent him a message being excited to get to know him more and this led us to talking.

He came off a bit insecure, but I shrugged it off because he was nice. He was also persistent in messaging me and asking if we could arrange to meet up.

He wasn't very good at figuring out what to do on our first date.

So I ended up arranging the whole date by saying we should go to the movies. But not just any movies - we went to Cinetopia, which is a fun theater. The seats are couches and lounge chairs. Its extremely comfortable, staged like a living room at home, and you can order food from waiters right before your show starts. Pretty neat huh?!

I think I may have made a great date if I was a guy ha!

Than the day of the date arrived and we where to meet for the first time at the theater.

I arrived dressed up, I walked in, and yet i couldn't see the guy any where.
However he noticed me right away, walked over to me, and introduced himself.

Now one may suspect that this may be a beautiful moment, but it was nothing close to it. The guy didn't look any thing like his photos and that alone creeped me out. I mean, who am I meeting?!!!

I tried to keep cool and respectful. Went into the theaters, ate, watched the movie, and quickly made a dash home right afterwards.

I texted him just minutes after and told him there would not be a second date.

Guys, moment of advice: Place up true photos of yourself. First impressions are everything and you're never going to get far placing up false photos of yourself.

At least the movie was good.
Merry Online dating!