If Men are looking, take it as a compliment

When a guy checks out another guys girl, he typically reacts in one of the following ways:

a) All pissed off and shouting to the man, "Hey what you doing looking at my girl?" Which then leads to an overdramatic fist fight.

b) The male to fight with his girl by shouting, "Are you purposely dressing sexy to impress other men? This kind thing never happened to my last girlfriend, so why does it always happen with you? What are you doing behind my back?"

c) Insecure boyfriend that doesn't like the extra attention and taking his girlfriend out, saying, "I just don't like how everyone stares at you."

When in all cases the boyfriend shouldn't behave by any of these standards. Instead he should notice the men staring and take it as a compliment.

Finally a song came out which expresses just what I mean.
Enjoy!

Song Title: I don't want her
Artist: Eric Bellinger
Video Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eh-jd4fG1JE

Song of the week

The second I heard this song I felt like it was meant for my blog. This particular version of the song is even more amazing then the original, because of the violin (being my favorite instrument) being incorporated. In addition to that, I love how he poetically sings about his love: His description about loving someone for her imperfections, her curves (beauty), and how love makes him crazy by fully giving himself just as she does in return.  

Song Title: All of me

Artists: John Legend

Video Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xwsYvBYZcx4

Lyrics:

What would I do without your smart mouth?
Drawing me in, and you kicking me out
You've got my head spinning, no kidding, I can't pin you down
What's going on in that beautiful mind
I'm on your magical mystery ride
And I'm so dizzy, don't know what hit me, but I'll be alright

[Pre-Chorus:]
My head's under water
But I'm breathing fine
You're crazy and I'm out of my mind

[Chorus:]
'Cause all of me
Loves all of you
Love your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections
Give your all to me
I'll give my all to you
You're my end and my beginning
Even when I lose I'm winning
'Cause I give you all of me
And you give me all of you, oh

[Verse 2:]
How many times do I have to tell you
Even when you're crying you're beautiful too
The world is beating you down, I'm around through every mood
You're my downfall, you're my muse
My worst distraction, my rhythm and blues
I can't stop singing, it's ringing, in my head for you

[Pre-Chorus:]
My head's under water
But I'm breathing fine
You're crazy and I'm out of my mind

[Chorus:]
'Cause all of me
Loves all of you
Love your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections
Give your all to me
I'll give my all to you
You're my end and my beginning
Even when I lose I'm winning
'Cause I give you all of me
And you give me all of you, oh

[Bridge:]
Give me all of you
Cards on the table, we're both showing hearts
Risking it all, though it's hard

[Chorus:]
'Cause all of me
Loves all of you
Love your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections
Give your all to me
I'll give my all to you
You're my end and my beginning
Even when I lose I'm winning
'Cause I give you all of me
And you give me all of you

I give you all of me
And you give me all of you, oh

Cautions on Trip to Vegas

Now taking a typical trip is a great way to spice up the relationship, however you also need to consider the consequences that you're facing when taking a trip to LAS VEGAS. That's right, Vegas!

It's the number one place to go to when single, because you can hook up, get lucky, and make mistakes. "What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" as they say.

However here are a few tips that men should be warned about before taking a girlfriend on a trip to Vegas. If you don't abide by these 3 DON'TS then you may end up being single before you know it.

1. Don't focus on other girl! Yes the girls are walking around revealing and most are even easy when flaunting their "almost naked" bodies down the streets. However you need to consider diseases, how she may rob you, or ask for you to pay for her services. They aren't always free and I highly suggest you keeping an eye only on the women you showed up with if you plan on returning from your trip still with her. Wither you think you're smooth...trust me you're not, your girl will notice and she won't be as nice as to give you a warning (like I am trying to do for you right now).

2. Don't gamble all your money away! There's nothing more boring then being away on vacation broke. Gambling does come off as a fun at first, but don't allow yourself to get carried away with it, and spend all your play money that you were suppose to use on the trip. You're girls gonna wanna head home early if all she's financially capable to do is stay in your hotel room watching TV.

3. Don't be getting so drunk to where you do any of the following:
a) Telling your girlfriend she is less attractive then that stripper you saw earlier that night

b) Taking a picture when another girl to text to all your friends, because you think it makes you look cool. Be caution here, you're girl will eventually see this pic.

c) Act like a complete idiot and over drink to where your girlfriend has to babysit you, because she wont. Instead she rather be dancing and may consider sending you home early and dancing the night away with someone else for a good time.

So to sum it up, the 3 DON'T in Vegas are as simple as this:
1) Don't stare at other women
2) Don't gamble away all the money
3) Don't become a drunken idiot